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Favoured! Get over it!

Favoured! Get over it!

We are taught from a young age in school and especially in churches that we are all equal. While a potion of this is true the reality of it is we are not. See we all have something in common…..we are all human…..beautifully made……wonderfully diverse within the realms of humanity whether it be the colour of your skin or ethinicity…..the basic line of humanity between us ALL is equal. God made us ALL in his image…..He loves us ALL with everything he is….He has given ALL a choice between believing, loving and......

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Fighting for something that's not for you?

Everybody iss fighting for something. Some people are visibly going through situations and fighting for better, other are silently fighting. But either way, everyone has a fight in them. There are two types of fighters though….those who are fighting for things which simply are not working for them or not for them and those who are fighting to stay focused on what God has in store for them. You see one will always think theres better than their current situation, they will never be contented in what they have in life, they......

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Parents be careful!

Parents be careful!

Now, i am not the worlds best mother….i dont have a disciplined routine with my kids, i forget to sort their homework often, i often dont iron their school clothes (what a waste of time) i lose my patience and temper with them and they have a macdonalds! Offtttt terrible! So what your about to read next is not coming from a place of motherhood perfection…its coming from a place of reflection, how my parents dealt with it, and observation. But if you can understand the heart of it then you will......

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Part time christian? Yep they exist

Part time christian? Yep they exist

This is by no means a judgement against those who fit into the following category but just a statement of observation and food for thought to exam ones own heart and motives….and trust me ive done both….very messy! lol. I see today that there are many people stating they are christians and say they believe that Jesus is the truth, and thats wonderful. But its also seen that those who confess Jesus is their Lord and saviour treat him as just that. They do not move beyond a Christ that has so......

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I hate feminism!

I hate feminism!

Pretty strong statement huh? Well its kinda true in the sense that feminism has become this community of women who want to be a race in itself, separate from the science and essence of what a woman is born. See the feminism i was brought up to see was the one where a strong woman looked after her family, pushed her kids to achieve their dreams, supported a hard working husband, cared for her neighbours, looked after her friend and her kids because their dad died! Listened with genuine concern, talked with......

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Political Dilemma?

Political Dilemma?

Okay, so this isnt going to go down well with some people but let me just point out that i am just one person and do not speak for the majority of christians…..i just speak for out of the box thinking people! Opps. lol. So here goes nothing. I recently had a conversation with 4 friends, whom i think are awesome, about our political stance and who we would be voting for in the up coming election. I chose to on this occasion not give my opinion but to just listen and......

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If you don't want a challenge, dont get married!

Yesterday i celebrated 10 years of marriage….and whilst its all very romantic and selfie filled, its a milestone i am extremely proud of! You see, marriage is by far the most challenging thing i have ever let myself in for….it doesnt come with a manual on how to deal with conflict of opinions, hormonal challenges, and general dousebag moments. I never had a preconcieved idea of a fairytale marriage, but boy this was way worse than i anticipated! And before anyone pipes up and says ‘marriage has been the best thing that......

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The pursuit of happiness is a lie

The pursuit of happiness is a lie

Time and time again i hear people saying ‘I just want to be happy’, or ‘im not looking for perfect i just want happiness’. For years i thought this was true and use to say it as my life quote but as ive gotten older and experienced many ups and downs ive come to believe that this is a lie. In those statements/quotes alone lays a fundermental flaw in the thinking. People will not make you happy, you husband or wife will not make you happy, your kids will not make you......

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Defining moments

Defining moments

I grew up in very much a working class family. My mam was a stay at home mum and dad was a painter on the railway. They scraped for money, to the point where they had to shut off their phone line because they couldnt afford to pay for it. My mother made our clothes to go out aswel…out of all the clothes i remember having, it was those i was most fond of. Dad played guitar in the church band and mam was a sunday school teacher. Wow times were simple......

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